By Daniel Oguine
A few days ago I was sent a short video by a male relative of mine who resides in Dublin with the caption “she is touching many lives here.”
With a female displayed on the poster frame, it was clear that there was no error in the caption; a female was the champion of his conversation. Impressed at his mental maturity in being gender unbiased, I curiously clicked on the video to see its content.
The lady in the video was Sadia Khan a renowned Pakistani Psychologist & relationship coach and in about three seconds into the reel I was taken by her. I remember she was saying and I quote “You can’t be a high value man if your partner or your woman is accessible and available to other men…Your entire respect comes from the woman you choose to mother your children.”
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In a gender competitive world where the intellectuals of each side fights for the superiority and supremacy of their gender, claiming sacrosanctity for their kind, occasionally you may find men who are generous enough to stand up for the opposite sex due to their mental attainments and the sagacity of their minds dominating over the mental insecurities that plague many.
But to find a woman of accomplishment, who comes out to speak on what she understands to be facts of life even when it stands to weaken the value of many of her kind, is rare. And even more so when the genuineness of her conversation cannot be easily challenged.
With a BSc in Psychology, a Master’s in Education and Developmental Psychology, Qualified Teacher Status, and Diplomas in Psychotherapy, Advanced CBT, Psychoanalysis, and Inner Child Healing, Sadia Khan has appeared on numerous podcasts, called upon to speak and debate on life’s issues mostly on the relationships between men and women of this era, many of these videos can be found on the YouTube channel. She displays keen insight on these matters and has proved herself to be an authority one not attained by a school degree but by the display of mental prowess on the issues of relationships and human behavior.
She has spoken on different issues from celibacy in men to how to compliment women, how women spot men who watch adult contents, why looks matter, how to stop being manipulated by women, red flag in men, high value women, celibacy in men, what makes women submit, the real reason women choose men, how to never get cheated on, how to stop being clingy etc.
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Sadia Khan can rightly be considered as one of the parts of the mechanisms for positive change in this present generation, not just because of her continuous accurate assessment of the natural psychology of men and women but because a lot of her councils and advice on relationships and on human behavior contain a potential to turn the mindset of both gender towards right living.
Khans followers on social media attest that she has a depth of accurate knowledge on the subjects she treats and many of them have found themselves drawn to the reels she posts for this reason.
With Sadia Khan, it’s not just about what she says but how she says it. She speaks from a perspective and in a manner that moves her listeners to action or reinforces their resolve on the right track. She is indeed one of the forces of positive change at this time.