Tonto Dikeh tells couples to stop blaming her for marital breakdowns

Nollywood actress and philanthropist Tonto Dikeh has once again sparked online debate after addressing claims that her personal life contributed to the collapse of several marriages.

In a message shared with her followers, the outspoken actress urged anyone who believes their marriage ended because of her to stop using her as a scapegoat and instead seek reconciliation with their spouse.

She emphasized that individuals should take personal responsibility for their choices rather than projecting blame onto others.

“If you ended your marriage because of me, please go and make peace,” Dikeh said. “You should not be using me as a justification for your personal or marital decisions.”

Her statement underlined her belief that no third party can destroy a stable relationship unless there were pre-existing problems within the marriage.

Dikeh argued that relationship failures are rooted in issues that already existed, and that it is unfair to attribute blame to an external influence.

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Dikeh has long been known for her candid views on relationships, emotional maturity and personal accountability. Her latest comments reflect her consistent stance on the need for individuals to own their decisions and learn from them.

The post quickly generated mixed reactions online, with supporters applauding her honesty and calling for more accountability in relationships.

However, some critics argued that public figures can have strong influence on personal relationships and that the boundaries between celebrity and private life can be blurred.

Across social media platforms, the conversation has reinforced Dikeh’s reputation as one of Nollywood’s most unapologetically vocal public figures.

While some users commended her directness, others debated the broader implications of influence and personal responsibility in romantic relationships.

As the discussion continues, many observers say the incident highlights a larger issue of how blame is assigned in marital breakdowns—and the role that social media plays in shaping public perception.